Best Ways To Subvert and/or Further Anarchistic Society Regardless of Circumstances

Obviously there are numerous methods, when your circumstances are conducive to it, to make strides towards nurturing an Anarchistic community. But what about when your circumstances don't allow you to partake of many anarchistic actions? As mentioned in my introductory post I have a family, consisting of some children, which rely on my presence, so were I to engage in any radical actions and risk imprisonment, what would happen to my family? This is just one concern in my own personal situation. So I suppose the purpose of this post is to discuss methods which a person can pursue, concerning anarchism, regardless of their situation.

In my personal experience, the limitations of having a family and trying to pursue anarchism can be frustrating - at times even depressing to realize how careful you have to be when you feel the need to partake of radical action. Another unceasing source of frustration for me is my location. I live in an area which is completely devoid of any kind of Anarchist community (I think the closest thing are the few conservative liberals - which are damn near the same thing as the right-wingers). These factors constantly remind me of how isolated I am in my beliefs (other than the ideals shared by my wife and I), and whenever any conflict occurs that I feel deserves protest, the best I can find to do is a personal boycott of the opposition. I've found that there are things that I can do, given my situation, that sate my need to boot the system.

Acquiring knowledge about what I can do is a constant for me. Often the only solace I get comes from reading and watching documentaries which provide me with options that I can utilize to make what stands I can, in an otherwise stagnant community. I also avoid driving our vehicle whenever possible by walking/skating/biking instead. I try to attend the local things that have any hint of subversion including "Earth Day" events, Farmers Markets, and the Food Not Bombs that happens on the weekends. I have tried in vain to spread the word by handing out free literature such as Slingshot or the Microcosm catalogs, although usually met with luke-warm enthusiasm which never leads to anything. On a more superficial level I try to sport patches and such which have obvious messages, hoping that maybe someone will catch on, or at least someone will possibly consider something socially important that maybe they hadn't thought of before.

Off the top of my head those are the small things I do. given my extremely adverse conditions, to provoke something of a community or movement in a place that largely wants nothing to do with it.

If anyone on here has any input to add PLEASE DO SO!