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How did you find your partner?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Pats, Mar 8, 2018.

  1. Pats

    PatsMember New Member




    Jun 25, 2017
    Female, 35 years old
    Östergötland, Sweden Sweden
    Yeah well this might sound trivial but I am so sick and tired of dating losers with no political interest at all and with shitty music taste so yeah, how did you find your partner? I’m starting to think I will live alone for the rest of my life hehe.

  2. punkmar77

    punkmar77Experienced Member Staff Member Uploader Admin Team Experienced member




    Nov 13, 2009
     United States
    My partner isn't punk, she is a hip hop Chicana from east Los Angeles that also happens to be Christian. She is definitely liberal minded and leans left on most issues but far from being anarcho or atheist. We've been together almost 18 years and share 6 grandkids and another on the way. I always wanted a punk girlfriend but it just wasn't in the cards for me. Also the older and more radical I've gotten I've come to realize that our differences keep us together. How boring life would be with someone exactly like me, plus someone has to bail me out of jail! Hahahaha
  3. Hent

    HentMember Forum Member




    May 7, 2018
    Male, 49 years old
    Haarlem, Netherlands Netherlands
    I met my love on a fetish, b.d.s.m. party:D
    We both were exploring in different ways and did find each other:)
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  4. deadwords

    deadwordsMember New Member




    Jul 17, 2018
    CA, United States United States
    My partner isn't anarchist or punk either, but we agree politically otherwise. She's not the type of person I would've guessed that I would end up with. I used to be mainly attracted to people that had more of a outgoing, somewhat domineering personality, whereas she tends to be much more mellow and reserved than I am, but I've found that I actually really enjoy that about her. My job in the past has required me to be around a lot of intense, macho dude types and gone unchecked, it can occasionally leak into my personality. She keeps me grounded. We've been together for four years and met in Korea, so I don't know what I can give in the way of tips. Other than that we met on an online dating app. Don't knock it 'til you try it lol... I guess if I had to offer up any advice, it would be to keep an open mind and while it's not a bad thing to aim for a standard, trying to find a partner that fits a specific box might lead you to miss opportunities with someone you might've vibed with otherwise.
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  5. GarlandB

    GarlandBNew Member New Member




    Aug 23, 2018
    London United States
    I met my current girlfriend over Tinder lol. But it's unlike any other Tinder hookup I've ever had so it's all good. We've been together for a year now.
  6. Spasmolytic

    SpasmolyticMember Forum Member




    Jun 18, 2018
    Uppsala, Sweden Sweden
    I actually met my girlfriend in the local scene here. The very first time I saw her she was in the pit and i was in love from that moment on ofc!