what are your thoughts on holding grudges against people? Bands that used to be homophobes, people you don't like, what ever? when does it become too much to hold a grudge? When do people who call out others over petty bs start to look like bigger fools themselves then the ones they are talking shit on? Should we forgive or forget? or do we need to constantly remind other people that we do not like them or care about? Just wondering your thoughts on this subject.