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Hitting Women

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Jameson, Oct 13, 2010.

  1. Vegetarian Barbarian

    Vegetarian BarbarianExperienced Member Experienced member Forum Member


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    Says the retard who starts a thread asking honestly whether its ok to hit women...

    You don't condone spousel abuse, yet you ask if its ok to hit woman, and since you say it is, then YOU SUPPORT SPOUSAL ABUSE, i mean hey if you ever piss her off and she hits you, you'd hall off and punch her right?? Big man you are. So if a child hits you, you gunna hit them? Treat them like a "man"? make them "equal" to you? I asked if you support child abuse because Thats how moronic the question on hitting woman is to me and how ever you justify your feelings on the matter.

    If you cant seriously deal with how woman act, then thats your problem, but if i were to ever see you hit a girl, for whatever reason, id bust your whole jaw off.

    Thats probably why its taboo, even if the woman deserved it in your mind, you know when you hit a girl, if anyone sees you, your FUCKED. Unless their sexist assholes like you

    Sure woman can get out of hand, the examples you listed are good ones, but that still and never will justify hitting them.

    Now, if you said "so this girl was shooting a shotgun at me..." and had a story, then, yea maybe... thats different, but other than EXTREME cases like this... no way
     
  2. Jameson

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    I usually try to restrain or try to calm down someone down that wants to fight with me and explain to them why there is no point in it, but that doesn't always work. If it doesn't I will defend myself, it doesn't matter someone's size or sex to how much they can kick your ass. I've known quite a few girls that could kick my ass.

    Everyone around you says it's bad, therefore it's bad? What the fuck are you doing on an anarchist website?
     
  3. Wolf

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    It IS sexist to believe women should be treated different in violent situations because they are "weaker" or incapable of defending themselves. There isn't really any way around that. This doesn't mean smacking around someone who put their love and trust in you is ok, THAT is the problem with spousal abuse, not them having a vagina, it would be just as bad if a gay guy smacked around his boyfriend. I have known plenty of girls who are fully capable of defending themselves against a man, and plenty of men who if you where to punch, you would feel like you have just ripped a baby bunnies head off. By saying you would not hit a women BECAUSE she is a women you are defending the sexist ideals against said women. HOWEVER, I can't stress enough on the "evils" of physically or emotionally hurting someone who has put their love and trust in you, female, or male.
     
  4. Anxiety69

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    why do i think it is sexist? saying that someone is a device for cleaning a vagina? Really you don;'t get the connection?

    Once again you are proving what an idiot you are, leave this site like you fake threatened to in a shallow attempt for attention already.
     
  5. Protspecd

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    lols, you condom... that isn't sexist, right? I hope not. D=

    I mean, it is used to catch semen from a mans penis which is like cleaning it (apparently ejaculating is a form of cleaning but that is probably for another thread). Besides, I don't see calling someone a device for cleaning genitalia a sexist thing. It is more, you are a device for cleaning out genitalia.

    Haha, stop being up this invalid point. I never threatened to leave, I have asked many times for you to show me said quote. Still no sign of it. =/

    Anyways, I did go into a bit of dark humor there. My text below that joke should have proved I don't actually think that way and that I was merely being sarcastic. Besides, I was talking about heroin! Paris Hilton seems to be into that kind of scene so I was saying like, she could use some good smack to make her happy.

    Btw, did you know the term 'idiot' was used to define someone with a very severe intellectual disability? Some people would find that offensive using that word as an derogatory term.
     
  6. butcher

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    Possibly the funniest thing I've read in a while!

    not sure if the term 'idiot' implies someone has mental problems ;) Maybe 'spaz' is more along those lines...
     
  7. Protspecd

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    It was back in the early 19th/20th century, from what I remember anyways. Yeah I remember when spastic started to be pretty frowned upon. Brother had to go to a specialist place that used the word Spastic in their name. After a few moths of controversy, it was then named something completely different. Forgot what they had changed it to...

    Edit: I just realized my post implies that I am from the 19th/early 20th century. Though it would be pretty awesome if I was immortal and had been through those times, I meant from when I did reading on the term.
     
  8. Anxiety69

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    actually you are wrong. a simple google search of 'word origin idiot' brought up a few similar definitions like this one ; Our word "idiot" comes from the Greek word for a private person uninvolved in public affairs. The Greeks thought any free man who failed to interest himself in his own present and future was an idiot. I
     
  9. Protspecd

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    I didn't say that during that time period was when it was born, did I? I was stating that it had that history and during that time it was used that way. The term fag was once used for a 'bundle of sticks' which has then evolved quite a bit over time, gathering a few meanings. Does that mean I can start calling people fags because its original meanings isn't the same as its later meanings?
     
  10. Dogma264

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    Holy hell, i was gone for a week and all shit broke loose here
    Well even though i hate to do it but ill qute someone on this

    "Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity" -John Lennon

    If i fight im no betetr than the assholes that fight me back, now if i do a peace protest i can still get my message across without physical harm to anyone.....if you try hard enough violence is never needed
     
  11. Anxiety69

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    So not true,.
     
  12. punkmar77

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    Yeah John's music was alright but he was a rich and privileged white man that did absolutely nothing for the oppressed masses of the world other than maybe entertain them for a quick minute. ;)
     
  13. vAsSiLy77

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    Got my divorce on the way, this morning the papers of my ex-wifes lawyer were in the mail, stating her reasons for the divorce, my favorite:
    "My husband didn't even hit me back while I was attacking him with a chair during an argument which I provoked just to get a emotional reaction after he remained silent for days following another argument. He just took away the chair from me and left."

    ok, there was just nothing to say anymore, end of the story, two adults with nothing left in common anymore, only a question of time and the final acceptance of "so it's us too after 15 years" - which is still her problem.

    Hitting her back would have make me feel like an asshole, like a stupid skinhead fucker beating up girls in a park, a family tyrant beating his contract-slave up for a fuzz on the carpet, drunken father hitting his teen-daughter for "looking like a whore" - read the fucking newspaper, it's full with those 10-line messages...

    I feel too much a punk myself, too much a man to make me feel like those assholes producing those 10-line messages - and last not least too much an anarchist to make myself that small in times the "other" half of the worlds population is still struggling for equality of genders - so hitting women is an absolute taboo for me.

    Another newspaper message:
    Female cops in gurmoney are more dangerous than their male colleagues, because they are more scared in dangerous situations, so they use their guns more easily and often than the males. Any idea why they are scared? (no, it has nothing to do with listening to saint john...)
    Thank punk, there are no female riot-cops!
     
  14. Shuei

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    gobbledigooks:
    Word - you did right.
     
  15. KAAOS-82

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    If she stayed in the kitchen you mean *insert sarcasm*
     
  16. vAsSiLy77

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    yes he did, "Penis Envy" was written entirely for her "my kitchen is my castle" waiting for the providing king to return... huh, she wasn't always that stupid and barbie-like, but real life's "equal opportunities" turned her into a somehow disturbing cliche-zombie step-by-step, giving in to her/hitting back would have been the worst thing possible, like giving her what she's asking for too keep the fucking role-game running.
    personally i try to stay above feminism, but gobbles statement about the "other half" of world population is a important argument - you can hit women if the last slave-princess on earth has become able to deal with her own life without clinging to the chains of education and traditions, the last former barbie stops asking for affection and "rights" and a place in still patriarchal "modern" society.
    We are living with two girls who were victimized by their fathers violence for years, always nicely covered up by middleclass smokescreens, again: for years... their torturer is now in psychiatry and their mother too - blaming the girls for provoking the crimes against them and destroying the family idyll - huh!
    The atmosphere in our commune is a bit rough sometimes, with shouting, throwing rags or the occasional egg out of anger - and it's still disturbing how difficult it is for those girls to keep up with everyone even in times of hearty and affectionate, solidly united community which is predominant and the reason why we live this way instead of "solitary confinement".
    Jameson - a drunken girl and her (over-)protective and drunken dad at a punk gig is a reason to ignore the rest of the sick society all around you? bad luck, but what about opening the eyes, bend back the bent-in-pride into shape and stop whining about feminism-cliches?
     
  17. Shuei

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    Lil'apple:
    But it's good to see that you understand these girls position.

    I think one of the major problems in society today, is that "how to act properly" has become rules, that all should follow, and when someone steps behind that, people don't look at their situation - what makes them act that way?

    A lot of violence could be prevented if we remember that the idiots sometimes act that way for certain reasons... Not that we should accept it blindly, but the balance is a paper thin line. Like girls being taught weakness by society.
     
  18. seitan

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    hitting a woman is like hitting an animal? i think this is exactly what the original poster was getting at. if i was a woman id be well fucked off with your comment.
    fuck, there are some real fuckin cunts on these forums.
     
  19. seitan

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    that story is totally relevant. thanks for sharing it.
     
  20. seitan

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    dude, just because you think its ok to defend yourself against anybody be it human or animal, it doesnt mean everybody else sees it that way, and thats why discussion is good.
    its not all about you, get a fuckin grip on reality and burst that bubble you are in.....
     
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