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How did you find your partner?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Pats, Mar 8, 2018.

  1. Pats

    Pats Member New Member


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    Female , 39 years old
    Östergötland, Sweden  Sweden
    Yeah well this might sound trivial but I am so sick and tired of dating losers with no political interest at all and with shitty music taste so yeah, how did you find your partner? I’m starting to think I will live alone for the rest of my life hehe.
     

  2. punkmar77

    punkmar77 Experienced Member Uploader Experienced member


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    My partner isn't punk, she is a hip hop Chicana from east Los Angeles that also happens to be Christian. She is definitely liberal minded and leans left on most issues but far from being anarcho or atheist. We've been together almost 18 years and share 6 grandkids and another on the way. I always wanted a punk girlfriend but it just wasn't in the cards for me. Also the older and more radical I've gotten I've come to realize that our differences keep us together. How boring life would be with someone exactly like me, plus someone has to bail me out of jail! Hahahaha
     
  3. Hent

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    Haarlem, Netherlands  United Kingdom
    I met my love on a fetish, b.d.s.m. party:D
    We both were exploring in different ways and did find each other:)
     
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  4. deadwords

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    My partner isn't anarchist or punk either, but we agree politically otherwise. She's not the type of person I would've guessed that I would end up with. I used to be mainly attracted to people that had more of a outgoing, somewhat domineering personality, whereas she tends to be much more mellow and reserved than I am, but I've found that I actually really enjoy that about her. My job in the past has required me to be around a lot of intense, macho dude types and gone unchecked, it can occasionally leak into my personality. She keeps me grounded. We've been together for four years and met in Korea, so I don't know what I can give in the way of tips. Other than that we met on an online dating app. Don't knock it 'til you try it lol... I guess if I had to offer up any advice, it would be to keep an open mind and while it's not a bad thing to aim for a standard, trying to find a partner that fits a specific box might lead you to miss opportunities with someone you might've vibed with otherwise.
     
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  5. GarlandB

    GarlandB New Member New Member


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    I met my current girlfriend over Tinder lol. But it's unlike any other Tinder hookup I've ever had so it's all good. We've been together for a year now.
     
  6. Spasmolytic

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    I actually met my girlfriend in the local scene here. The very first time I saw her she was in the pit and i was in love from that moment on ofc!
     
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